Using The Power of Your Personality Type is Free Marriage Counseling!The biggest reason for divorce in America is not understanding personality type!. Your never changing personality is comprised of preferences for behavior that make up the core of who you are and how you naturally use your brain. These preferences are instinctive and don’t change. What a wonderful tool to fix marriage and what a wonderful tool for marriage family counseling!! If your marriage is crumbling and you are considering separation or divorce...stop, please discover and use your personality type by taking the advice below!! Also get the following book regarding stopping divorce and give yourself another chance! Free marriage counseling, marriage family counseling, fix marriage, premarital questions and concerns...all these issues can be helped with knowledge of your personality type!
Visit the MBTI page for a more in-depth understanding of your type. Your spouse may have the same personality type or a different type (same or different instinctive preferences), either way if both spouses know and understand their personality type and the automatic NATURAL DIFFERENCES then living together 24/7 and 365 is a lot easier. Understanding the natural differences that make up your and your spouse’s personality type is like free marriage counseling or marriage family counseling that really works!! Conflict Recognition/Resolution There is going to be conflict in any marriage. In fact one of several very important premarital questions to ask before marriage is How do you and your potential mate resolve conflict? The more you understand how you handle conflict and how your mate handles conflict the better two people can develop an understanding that enables conflict resolution. This knowledge is key to lasting marriage family counseling; this type knowledge itself can fix marriage problems.Some personality types will naturally talk the conflict out. (Extraverts) Other types will tend to keep quiet, reflect and think it through first.(Introverts) Some types will see the exact same problem, the exact same thing, but with two diametrically opposed understandings of the problem and they arrived at that impasse naturally!! (Sensors vs. Intuits) How in the world can two people see the exact same thing yet come away with two completely different views of what they saw?? Well, that is very natural and happens all the time! Understanding of personality type is the free marriage counseling advice needed to understand this seemingly impossible reality! Some types will reason through a conflict solution very logically with a natural flare for “pro and con” or “cause and affect”. (Thinkers) Other types will naturally only see the personal, people centered, emotional issues as they reason to a solution. (Feelers) Some types will desire a deep dialogue in order to understand the roots of the conflict (Extraverted and Introverted Intuits) while their mate may be prone to naturally address the problem but gloss-it over and not delve too deeply for a solution thinking that will solve the problem!! (Extraverted and Introverted Sensing Thinkers) Both are very natural and instinctive approaches to problem solving by certain personality types. Some types will present solutions in a sequential, somewhat organized manner looking to close it up and solve it. (Judgers) Other types will take a more open-ended, flexible option approach to solving problems always waiting for more information. (Perceivers) Some types will quickly move to an “I’m right and you’re wrong!”(Sensors/Thinkers) approach; while other types will naturally take a more “no fault-fight avoidance” approach to conflict resolution.(Feelers) Which are you? Which is your mate? If you don’t know determine your personality type with the Myers-Briggs and follow the links below for a more detailed analysis of personality type, being with and living with your and your mate's type, what they value, ways to fix marriage issues and much more!! Really great and free marriage counseling! Unique Contributions to the Marriage Covenant Each partner will bring natural and very unique personality type contributions to the marriage relationship. Knowing what they may be specific to your mate’s personality type would be more good premarital questions to ask. Consider the following partial list of unique factors and different preferences mates will bring to marriage:
What most marriage partners do when encountering personality differences is either ignore them, judge them, criticize them, try to change them, argue and fight with/over/because of them, and when none of that works (and it won’t….not permanently anyway) they leave the situation as in separate and/or divorce!! Personality differences that are not understood and maturely delt with are the biggest causes of divorce in America! Marriage is a joining of personality DIFFERENCES at least as often if not more often than a joining of SAMENESS in personality type and personality preferences. For a better understanding of personality types marrying same and opposite types(sameness in type attracting same types and opposites attracting, etc.) visit the Personality and Love page.check out the Husbandwife MBTI swicki at eurekster.com If you would like to learn how to take advantage of the free marriage counseling that a knowledge of your MBTI personality type can be and how you and your mate can use that free marriage counseling knowledge to fix marriage issues, and enhance marriage family counseling take the Myers-Briggs, return to this page and link on your type below. By the way, each type description becomes a reference for premarital questions to ask; and, yields a better understanding of how and why your fiancee answers the premarital questions the way they do! If you are single and looking for a mate, truly a knowledge of your Myers-Briggs personality type will help you toFall In Love For All The Right Reasons ISTJ ISFJ INFJ INTJ ISTP ISFP INFP INTP ESTP ESFP ENFP ENTP ESTJ ESFJ ENFJ ENTJ Might you have a suggestion or question that will help make this page and "Personality and Marriage" catagory more complete? If so, feel free to write your comments and/or ask your questions on the form below, then submit them to me. I'll do my best to incorporate them Return from Free Marriage Counseling to Personality Power Home Page
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