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Use Your Personalilty Type As a Love Test!

Your MBTI personality type will give you information that can be used, in a manner of speaking, as if it were from a Love Test of some kind; giving you wonderful facts about the natural relationship compatibility factors, love-making preferences and sexual compatibility of all the 16 types!!

But understand that the Myers-Briggs is NOT a Love Test per se; it is a personality preference indicator of unmatched accuracy.

You can calculate love compatibility by matching type!

In other words, you want either the same "Dominant" function as your type or the same "core" functions as much as possible as your type.

Find Your Perfect Mate


Love Is A Choice
True love

Real love requires hard work and often hard choices if it is to last. Many times love requires sacrificial giving to the one loved.

Knowledge of your personality type can help ease the “hard work” and “sacrificial” giving of true love.

When you understand the ways and the whys of how you instinctively prefer to love and be loved and match that with someone with similar preferences true love can last a lifetime.

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Do You Have A "Love Story" to Share?

Discover your personality type's love power and learn the secrets to lifelong love relationships!


Peas in a Pod or Opposites Attract

There are basically two schools of thought when you regard love, personality type and relationship compatibility and try to calculate love compatibility.

One is that the more “type alike” two people are the more compatible they will be.

In other words two people, who share the same personality type OR share 2-3 of the same functions at least, will much more naturally get along. There is research strongly supporting this claim.

Then there is also research strongly supporting the claim that the more opposite two personality types are the greater the ATTRACTION will be. The reality is probably some combination of the two. 16 Types

It is true that all 16 types can relate, mate, have wonderful relationships with all combinations of type.

It is also true that they will not experience the same amount of ease however as they relate with each other.

The research shows us that when two people are OPPOSITE on the Extraversion-Introversion dichotomy (the energy preference level) and or the Judging-Perceiving dichotomy (getting things done level) then opposites do seem to attract nicely, and for some long time!

However, the same research shows us that when two people are OPPOSITE on the Sensing-Intuition dichotomy (awareness level) and/or the Thinking-Feeling dichotomy (decision making level) then opposites DO NOT ATTRACT; indeed the going is much more difficult. Not impossible…just more naturally difficult.

So a love meter test of sorts could really help here don't you think?

The Sensing-Intuition preferences and the Thinking-Feeling preferences seem to be the “peas in a pod” reality if you will.

The more type alike two people are regarding how they see the world and make decisions about what they just saw, the better relationship compatibility and love is.

The Myers-Briggs can be is of priceless value in helping two people thrive in relationship.

The love test (to use a manner of speaking) of Myers-Briggs personality results will identify type and this site will explain how the type dynamics work to calculate love compatibility!


For Lack of Communication

Relationships of all kinds break up due to a lack of communication more than any other reason. From the power of personality perspective your Dominant function determines how you communicate to your partner.

If two people have opposite Dominant functions then, in all practicality, they are speaking two different “foreign” languages.

Not being able to speak the language of your mate does not make for good, long lasting relationship compatibility, let alone a reality of growing love.

So identifying your own and your mate’s Dominant function, at least, is a key step in understanding how to calculate love compatibility. Again, the love meter test of MBTI can help you understand your mbti language.


Opposite Hemispheres

We are also seeing more and more that when two people have the SAME DOMINANT function but in the opposite hemisphere that MAY BE IDEAL….

Wow the possibility of the perfect relationship compatibility! Type alike DOMINANT function then is the key in order to calculate love compatibility.

For example, if you are a dominant Thinker, let’s say an ESTJ, since you are an Extravert your “perfect” match is probably also a dominant Thinker but one who introverts it!

For example an ISTP is also a dominant Thinker. Ahah! You might say that is the real lasting human relationship compatibility factor that attracts and never stops attracting!!

Again use the personality information gleaned from the MBTI to determine your type for calculating love compatibility.

Think about it, if you can read your mate’s thoughts and she/he yours that is tremendous power, natural understanding, potentially instant empathy.

Well you may not actually be able to “read” someone else’s thoughts but when you psychologically SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE as someone you love then you more naturally understand what is being said, and many times felt even though not expressed.

The MBTI will show you what your MBTI language is and that of your mate!!check out the Marriage MBTI swicki at eurekster.com


What Now?!
All right you may be thinking.... "How do I know what I am Dominant in..is it sensing, intuition, thinking or feeling...and how do I find my perfect mate??"

Take the "love meter test" of MBTI (remember he MBTI is NOT actually a "love meter test" this is just a manner of speaking)and when you know your type, return to this page link on your true fit type below and I’ll show you the Love Test winner for your type, how to calculate love compatibility and how to find your perfect mate.

Also share your love story with us!

ISTJ ISFJ INFJ INTJ ISTP ISFP INFP INTP ESTP ESFP ENFP ENTP ESTJ ESFJ ENFJ ENTJ

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