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Providing Consistent, Sincere Affection, Structure is Good Parenting Skill ESFJ!

p>Parenting skill for the ESFJ child will require parents who understand practicality,with a willingness to give repeated and sincere affection and affirmation.

ESFJ, Extraverted with Sensing, Feeling and Judging parenting skill can be improved by understandingthat these ESFJ little ones need to feel loved and appreciated...all the time!

Firstly understand that this page is devoted to helping you as a loving parent or guardian, regardless of yourtype, better understand how to use your instinctive nature to improve your parenting skillby nurturing your child.

Your nature and your child's nature is your personality type and your child's personality type as discovered through the Myers-Briggs Test.

You may or may not be ESFJ; but, if your child is ESFJ than this page can guide you in developing outstanding parenting skill as you raise and interact with your ESFJ child.

You'll be introduced to several key personality characteristics of the ESFJ childand you'll be given some suggestions as to things to do that will improve parentingskill and help nurture your ESFJ child all through life.

We'll assume that you know your personality type and that your child is ESFJ...or youthink they are...here we go!!

Characteristics

Characteristics of the ESFJ Child-Some Behaviors to Look For:

Very happy, even optimistic babies

Lots of energy as babies

Very verbal and generally expressive

They like to run everywhere vs walking

Crave, need hugs, kisses, snuggles...physical expression

All their life, they value harmony, being appreciated and valued

Must have order and structure

Early, avid readers

Very cooperative, and competitive school children

Very artistic, paint, jewelry, crafts

Sometimes too social in school settings

Driving need to "fit in" won't lead necessarily

Strong tendency to be perfectionist

Any dis-harmonious situation will crush them

Strong need for relationships

Very caring, loyal...traditional children

Regardless of your type Mom and Dad here are some things you can do to nurture the ESFJ child and improveparenting skill.
Guidelines
Guidelines for the ESFJ Child:

Let them talk and be ready for lots of energy

Give them tons of physical affection, following their lead

hug them, kiss them, snuggle them

They will, but encourage them to express all of what they feel

Show them, be precise in what you mean for them to do

Try not to be too "up front" too forceful

They need constant praise and affirmation, see the negative don't dwell on it

Help them to see they don't need to rush decisions, options are ok

Be tactful with them as their feelings are dominant

In conclusion Mom and Dad, if you are ESFJ than most of the above seemed pretty naturaland may have brought back childhood memories; but, if you are not a Sensing Feeler (SF)or an Extraverted Judger (EJ) then maybe the above can better aid you as you developyou parenting skill.
The ESFJ is one of more common personality types in terms of distribution in America.About 10-12% of all Americans are ESFJ. About 14-17% of American females and about 5-7% ofmales are ESFJ. As you can see a bit more weighted on the female side!
Should you desire to check on another personality type(s) just link below and return to the main Parenting page and find the type you want at the bottom, link on it and enjoy!!
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